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English Poetry / What to do when someone betray us?
« on: November 06, 2018, 06:20:00 AM »
We've all been there: Someone who we trust deeply stabs us in the back, and our world comes crashing down in an instant. We may be in denial at first, refusing to accept the fact that someone so near and dear to us could fritter away our trust. Once we come to terms with what has occurred, we may find it difficult to confide in anyone again for a while.

Perhaps you discovered that your partner cheated on you. Maybe you caught your coworker spreading rumors about you behind your back. Or, you realized that your friend of 20 years has been stealing money from you.

No matter the form of deception, it can be devastating. In the worst cases, such events can wreak havoc on one's self-esteem, leading to depression and other negative health outcomes.

So what happens next?

As the victim, that's really up to you. You were wronged and can pursue whatever course of action you deem fair.

If he or she displays genuine remorse -- including a sincere apology that feels like it's coming from the heart -- you may be inclined to give them a second chance.

Or, you may feel that their behavior was so egregious that you'd never be amenable to forgiving them, let alone reconciling.

In the case of marital infidelity, you may seek counseling before you decide pull the plug on your marriage altogether.

Those who go through with burying the hatchet should be commended for their kind, forgiving nature. However, they must keep in mind that if it happened once, it can always happen again. And if it does, this quote may hit you like a lightening bolt: "Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me."

Those who have been deceived should never blame themselves for what happened. They might criticize themselves for not picking up on warning signs along the way, or even begin to question whether they deserved it.  The only one in the wrong is the person who took the other for granted.

These experiences show us that even the strongest relationships can tear apart because people are selfish, fallible beings. Trust is difficult to build, but easy to destroy.

It happens to the best of us. Some people are simply masters at trickery -- they know how to appeal to our emotions to get what they want. We fall under their spell, not in a million years suspecting that they could be up to no good.

There's no shortage of liars and fakes in the world. We can only try our best to see through their machinations and avoid them like the plague.

At least we can always take comfort in the fact that karma is alive and well: What goes around comes around.

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Song Lyrics/Translations / Hath Chumme "Ammy Virk"
« on: July 31, 2018, 10:58:37 PM »
Singer: Ammy Virk
Lyrics: Jaani


Ho ek te dass mainu
Jo zehan ch hai mere
Ohne matha chumeya pehlan
Ya hath chumme ne tere x (2)

Tere bullan di tareef
Pakka kitti honi ae
Tere jisam te nishani
Koyi ditti honi ae
Haaye kujh taan hoya ae
Dona de dassde chehre

Ohne matha chumeya pehlan
Ya hath chumme ne tere
Ohne matha chumeya pehlan
Ya hath chumme

Ho mainu supne aunde rehnde aayo
Dete tere ni
Ohnu seene te sulavein
Ton har raat henere ni x (2)

Mera chehra nai ghummda
Tere ohdon char chuphere

Ohne matha chumeya pehlan
Ya hath chumme ne tere
Ohne matha chumeya pehlan
Ya hath chumme

Jaani wangu pyar oss ton
Zaahir nai hona
Paise wala taan hunn ae
Par shayar nai hona x (2)

Ohde naal lai layi tu
Main maut naal lai loon phere

Ohne matha chumeya pehlan
Ya hath chumme




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Song Lyrics/Translations / Dil Diya Gallan "Atif Aslam"
« on: July 31, 2018, 10:51:27 PM »
Singer: Atif Aslam
Lyrics: Irshad Malik

Kacchi doriyon, doriyon, doriyon se
Mainu tu baandh le
Pakki yaariyon, yaariyon, yaariyon mein
Honde na faasley

Eh naraazgi kaagzi saari teri
Mere sohneya sunn le meri
Dil diyan gallan
Karaange naal naal beh ke
Akh naal akh nu milaa ke

Dil diyan gallan haaye…
Karaange roz roz beh ke
Sacchiyan mohabbataan nibha ke

Sataaye mainu kyun
Dikhaaye mainu kyun
Aiven jhuthi mutthi russ ke rusaake
Dil diyan gallan haaye
Karaange naal naal beh ke
Akh naal akh nu mila ke

Tenu lakhan ton chhupa ke rakhaan
Akkhaan te sajaa ke tu ae meri wafaa
Rakh apna bana ke
Main tere layi aan
Tere layi aan yaaran
Naa paavin kade dooriyan (x2)

Main jeena haan tera…
Main jeena haan tera
Tu jeena hai mera
Dass lena ki nakhra dikha ke

Dil diyan gallan
Karaange naal naal beh ke
Akh naal akh nu mila ke

Dil diyan gallan…

Raatan kaaliyan, kaaliyan, kaaliyan ne
Mere din saanwale
Mere haaniyan, haaniyan, haaniyan je
Lagge tu na gale

Mera aasmaan mausamaan di na sune
Koi khwaab na poora bane
Dil diyan gallan
Karange naal naal beh ke
Akh naal akh nu mila ke

Pataa hai mainu kyun chupa ke dekhe tu
Mere naam se naam mila ke
Dil diyan gallan
Karange naal naal beh ke
Akh naal akh nu mila ke

Dil diyan gallan…



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Self Written Poetry / Re: Sp's Blog.
« on: March 12, 2017, 12:13:28 PM »
Nazar se door Raabte se bhi door,
phir bi har pal DiL ke paas rehna,

paas reh ka yeh Andaaz mere jaana,
kbi btana.. k tum'ne seekha kha se hai...$p

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Self Written Poetry / Re: Sp's Blog.
« on: March 12, 2017, 12:07:32 PM »
har saan's mei hai ab  tere na hone ka ehsaas,
tum'ne toh mujj mei mera kush bi na shoda...$p

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Self Written Poetry / Re: Sp's Blog.
« on: March 12, 2017, 11:15:48 AM »
takleef toh bahut de raha hai tera na hona, magar
tere ho kar bi na hone se kush kush ashaaa hai...$p

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Self Written Poetry / Re: Sp's Blog.
« on: March 11, 2017, 12:55:18 AM »
hu mai mashroof ja rahu mai fursat mei,
har pal mujhe teri..  har baat Yaad aati hai,

haal kush aisa hai tere baad.. DiL ki udasi ka,
k meri akhon mei mujhe tasveer teri nazar aati hai...$p




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Self Written Poetry / Re: Sp's Blog.
« on: March 11, 2017, 12:41:20 AM »
Matt poosh kaise beet raha hai tere bin har Lamha,
kbi baat karne ki Hasrat toh kbi dekhne ki Tammana !!

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Self Written Poetry / Re: Sp's Blog.
« on: March 11, 2017, 12:38:08 AM »
Insaan tha woh isi liye toot gaya,
Mere Pyar ka Intzar karte karte,

Milna toh kya tha Rabta bhi toot gya,
DiL mei Utar jne ka Rasta talash karte karte...$p

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Hindi Poetry / Re: Touching urdu/hindi Shayari
« on: February 24, 2017, 02:13:59 AM »
Allama Iqbal

Sitaron se aage jahan aur bhi hain
Abhi ishq ke imtehan aur bhi hain

Tahi zindagi se nahin ye fizayen
Yahan siakdon karwaan aur bhi hain

Khana’at na kar aalam-e-rang-o-bu par
Chaman aur bhi aashiyaan aur bhi hain

Agar kho gaya ek nasheman to kya ghum
Maqmat-e-aah-o-fughaan aur bhi hain

Tu shaheen hai parvwaaz hai kaam tera
Tere saamne aasmaan aur bhi hain

Isi roz-o-shab main ulajh kar na rah ja
Ke tere zameen par makaan aur bhi hain

Gaye din ke tanha tha main anjuman mein
Yahaan ab mere raazdaan aur bhi hain !!




 

Beyond the stars there are worlds more
Our quest yet has more tests to pass
This existence alone does not matter
There are boundless journeys more
Do not rest on what you have
There are paradises more to explore
Why worry if you have lost one abode
There are a million addresses to claim
You are the falcon, your passion is flight
And you have skies more to transcend
Lose not yourself in the cycle of days and nights
Within your reach are feats even more
Gone is the day when I was lonesome in the crowd
Today those who resonate my thoughts are more

Mohammed Iqbal
Naujawaan ke Naam, Bal-e-Jibraeel, 1908

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Self Written Poetry / Re: Sp's Blog.
« on: February 08, 2017, 12:34:46 PM »
Pass ho kar bhi woh bahut door hai mujse,
Ishara ho nahi sakta.. Pukara ja nahi sakta !!

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Self Written Poetry / Re: Sp's Blog.
« on: January 27, 2017, 01:16:33 PM »
ab ki baar aye toh wapis na ja paoge,
k ab se pehLe koi itna yaad ayia nahi...$p

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Self Written Poetry / Re: Sp's Blog.
« on: January 27, 2017, 01:08:07 PM »
Kaash tum miLne ayo pehLe ki tarah,
makaan tha jo Ghar bna liya hai maine...$p

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Self Written Poetry / Re: Sp's Blog.
« on: January 27, 2017, 01:01:00 PM »
Kab Likh pauga aisa..  jo tumhe pasand ayega,
Na jaane kab Ishq mera.. mukammal hoga...$p

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Self Written Poetry / Re: Sp's Blog.
« on: January 27, 2017, 12:49:18 PM »
daaloge jo doori tum apne Pyar mei,
Phir aik roz wohi tumhe tum'se chura legi...$p

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